Since I started traveling down the notary path I have gained a different perspective as a parent.
My go-with-the-flow attitude has shifted to the “what ifs.” Not “what ifs” that make us scared, but the “what ifs” that prepare us for very common scenarios in a parents life.
The other evening I asked a group of friends while we enjoyed our rare night out on State Street who had a living will. Not a single friend said yes! NOT ONE.
There are several reasons why most parents may not have a living will:
1. Lack of awareness: Many parents may not be aware of the importance of having a living will or the options available to them. Some may not even be familiar with what a living will is or how it can be used to communicate their healthcare preferences. See part 1 if you do not know what is a living will.
2. Procrastination: Planning for end-of-life care and making decisions about medical treatment can be difficult and emotional, which can lead some parents to put off creating a living will.
3. Belief that they are too young: Many parents may think that creating a living will is only necessary for older adults or those with serious medical conditions. However, unexpected accidents and illnesses can happen at any age, and having a living will in place can help ensure that a person's wishes are followed. THIS IS A BIG ONE. Do not become the reason why another parent prepares a living will after hearing your story of not having one.
4. Family dynamics: Some parents may be hesitant to discuss end-of-life care and medical treatment with their children or other family members, which can make it difficult to create a living will. In some cases, family dynamics or conflicts may also make it difficult for parents to make decisions about their medical care.
5. Cost: Some parents may be deterred by the cost of creating a living will or may not be aware that there are affordable options available. Check out my next post about local options.
Overall, while there may be various reasons why parents may not have a living will, it is important to recognize the benefits of having one in place and to take steps to plan for end-of-life care and medical treatment.
To support my community, I will be posting more information about where to get a living will completed.
Autumn is coming; Enjoy!
Katey
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